05 May 2012

Childhood Friendship

***2 Disclaimers: 1) this post is about 2 months late  2) be forewarned that it contains at least 30 photographs.... I just couldn't narrow it down any further than that.

It's a beautiful thing.  Max and Dillon have been friends for 4 years, nearly half of their lives.  The sadness they've both felt with us moving was immense.  Since September, they have kept in touch through creative Skyping.  Have you ever seen boys 'wrestle' and laugh, play games and listen to music together, tell each other about their school day and watch Sponge Bob together.... all on Skype?  Even though miles separate, they have found ways to stay alive and well in each others' hearts.  They've traded animals and toys just to make sure the other has a piece of them with them at all times.

Shortly after we moved to Oxford, Dillon and his grandpa were having a conversation about where Dillon would like to go on their 'guy trip'.  When Dillon's idea of a Chicago Bulls game became doubtful because of their strike, Dillon said, "We could go to England to see Max." His grandpa said, "yeah, we could do that."  The tears started rolling down Dillon's face at the thought of that possibly becoming a reality.  After much thought, it was decided that Dillon would fly with his dad (Greg) and grandpa (Gary) to see his best friend in February.  Dillon discovered the plan was actually going to happen through a scavenger hunt his family made for him for his birthday.  The whole thing was set up with clues leading him to the final clue of a toy airplane with (real) tickets to England.  A few minutes later, Dillon skyped Max to tell him the news. I wish I had that moment captured on video!  After the initial shock and disbelief, Max ripped his shirt off, lassoed it around his head like a cowboy and took off running in circles through the house.

The months of waiting were made easier just knowing they would see each other soon.

Here are some highlights of their time together (many of the photos compliments of Greg):

Max- out of breath from RUNNING off the bus and through the city to get to Gloucester Green Station where he knew Dillon was waiting...


Walking on Air
Dillon getting his first experience on a double decker bus.... screeching all along the way as it looks from the top like the bus is going to hit people.
 Lots to catch up on....

 Dillon caring for animals, yes even the pigeons,  everywhere we went...
 Skyping mom and sister back home.

Blenheim Palace 


 Boys just being boys...







 And some serious video gaming....
Gary bought this for the kids (who had been wanting it for months)....
 Oh man, just look at those faces.





This was the saddest moment of all.  But we are all so thankful for the time spent with Dillon, Greg and Gary.  We had a wonderful time together and look forward to seeing them again soon.


Dillon's request was extravagant.  And his parents and grandpa gave an extravagant gift. It all made me think about myself as a child of God and how He loves for his kids to ask for extravagant gifts.  He's not bothered by our requests.  He's a Giver and a Lover and he loves to give good gifts to his children.


4 comments:

  1. Jodie, you can`t possibly know just how completely beautiful this post is to me. What a friendship, and one that seems pretty rare for kids so young! May they always stay this close!

    I have more feelings about this, but no more words to express them...

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    1. I remember Max and Dillon's 3rd grade teacher saying about them, "they seem like the kind of friends that will remain friends until they're old men." So sweet. Dillon is "saving" a house for Max on his street for when we come back.

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  2. This is great - it reminds me of the time I got to visit my best friend who moved to California (we were about 10 at the time). The size difference between us was about the same as Max and his buddy. :)
    I hear that our old house was sold (again) because the people who bought it from us got transferred to Arizona. So many people going so many places! Hope to see you when you guys come back to the US.
    Jenny

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    1. I'm glad you enjoyed it :) Yes, I heard that they were moving too! It looks like the last several ones to move onto Mike Court have also been the first to move out! What a great place that was for our kids to grow up! They still talk about Annie and loved her coming into the garage to visit them :) Yes, we hope to see you too when we return.

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